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Tuesday, December 30, 2025

Wassail Recipe

I've begun a tradition of making wassail for certain events, all around midwinter, each year. Each time I make it, I look up several recipes to figure out what I should include, and then I pretty much wing it. This time, I'm writing down an approximate recipe to come back to. All the measurements are approximate - add things until your heart is happy.

This tastes great, is super easy to make, and it makes the house smell amazing while it simmers.


The Basic Recipe:

Apple Cider        8-10 cups           my crockpot will hold about 10 cups

Orange Juice       2 cups                pulp-free Simply Orange is my preference

Lemon Juice       1/3 to 1/2 cup    

Honey                 1 cup                  Honey OR Brown Sugar, not both

Brown Sugar      1 Tbsp                Honey OR Brown Sugar, not both

Cloves                1/2 to 1 tsp         you can also use 10-15 whole cloves

Cinnamon          4-6 sticks            I usually dump some ground cinnamon in there, too

Ginger                1/4 tsp

Nutmeg              1/4 tsp


Options & Extra Additions:

Apples & Oranges     cut up a couple of each and float the pieces - get the smaller ones

Star Anise                  enough to float and be pretty

Cranberries                enough to float and be pretty

Cranberry Juice         instead of the Lemon Juice (Pineapple Juice is also an option, but not for me)


Instructions:

Put all the juices in the crockpot and turn it on high. Don't overfill it - you need room for mixing.

Add the honey and the ground spices, mix it well - it may be easier to mix after it gets a bit warm.

Cut up the apples and oranges. Remember to take the sticker off before cutting them up, though. Smaller fruit lets you make pretty slices that will float on top.

Add other floating pieces - the cinnamon sticks, star anise, and/or cranberries.

Let it cook for a couple of hours, stirring occasionally. Then turn it to low and let it simmer that way until the end of your event or until it runs low.

I suggest putting a ladle in a bowl, sitting on a tray, for serving. Ladle a generous amount into large coffee mugs. Try to get a little of the floating pieces into each mug. 

Optionally, top with whipped cream and some shaken cinnamon, a swirl of caramel, or a cinnamon stick tucked in.

If there's any left, let it cool, then pour it back into the cider jug without any of the floating bits. Label the jug WASSAIL, and you can microwave it for a quick warm drink.

Friday, June 20, 2025

Pride and Privilege

Who am I? Well, I am not who I was raised to be.


Based on the expectations I grew up with, I should be a college-educated, upper middle class, white Christian woman in a monogamous heterosexual marriage with two to four children and a steady career as a white-collar professional. That is who I was raised to be.


That is not who I am. 

Wednesday, November 6, 2024

Paradox of Tolerance

 


I have a whole writing somewhere on Tolerance. And I can't find it right now, but I am posting this here so as to never lose it, because it's important.


Edit: I found that writing - Tolerance Is My Value System.
















Trump. Again.

Trump. Again. So we've all got the news this morning, and I'm pretty sure everyone I care anything about is cycling between depressed, raging, afraid, disgusted, worried, and resigned. I just can't believe any kind of reasonable people can make this decision. I want to lash out, but where? There's not a reasonable target to do so - some of my friends are renting a rage room this evening, though. 

Friday, August 2, 2024

Mismatched Socks

 


I wear mismatched socks. On purpose.

Because of health reasons, I wear compression socks all the time. And they come in packs of like 6 pair in various colors, and half are grey. So when I do laundry, I dump all the socks into one pile, I don't match them, and I pull out one color and one grey to wear each day. So my socks are always deliberately mismatched.

Friday, July 19, 2024

Favorite Books to Read Again

A few years back, I made a list of books I have reread the most times and would recommend. Here's what I came up with, and I may add a few.

Cuckoo's Egg - I've gone through at least four copies of this book since I was a pre-teen. I love this world and a lot of the philosophical discussions that are awoken by the situations in the book. https://www.amazon.com/Cuckoos-Egg-Alliance-Union-Universe-Cherryh/dp/0886770831

Xanth (series) - started reading these with my sister when we were young, and just... love over and over. Magic, bad puns, puzzles, and friendship. I have been made aware in recent years of some really problematic misogynism therein, and I've been afraid to go back and read with that lens - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MK2PJSR

Dresden Files (series) - Saving The Universe, One Random Act of Destruction at a Time. The best wizard named Harry. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074CF4JMZ

Tales of Alvin Maker (series) - Seventh Son is another I've gone through multiple copies of. Alternate history where cottage magic works. The first several are great, but they weaken as the series progresses (much like Ender's Game by the same author) - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0841YCLH8

Charles Dickens' A Christmas Carol - if you've never read the book, do - there is so much richness there that can't be shown on stage. If possible, I recommend the reproduction of the first edition little red book with the original illustrations. - https://www.amazon.com/Christmas-Carol-silkbound-Arcturus-Classics/dp/1398814199

Men Are Like Waffles Women Are Like Spaghetti - I will rarely read, let alone recommend, a self-help/relationship book. But this one made a lot of ideas 'click' in my head. Just understand that you have to replace 'men' and 'women' with 'some people' - https://www.amazon.com/Men-Like-Waffles-Women-Spaghetti-Understanding/dp/0736968881

The Chronicles of Narnia (Narnia series) - as a child, fine fantasy. As an adult I re-read and saw a lot of Christian mythology. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000QQKTGI

Rogue Warrior (series) - A guilty pleasure (and Rubi's choice) -you can tell when I've been reading these because my language devolves. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B087DZVNCL

Dragon Prince (series) - Detailed regal-dynasty fiction with dragons. I learned a lot of lessons on how to manage people in here, too. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074CF7K6D

Kushiel's Legacy (series) - Great world-building with a kinky twist. There's three trilogies, and I recommend them highly at the beginning, with love for them decreasing with each one. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074CGQ95W

Monday, June 17, 2024

I Wake Up On Mondays

I wake up on Mondays making lists in my head, hit the ground running. 

Conversations to follow up on, things to research, tasks to handle. 

Unpacking from whatever I did over the weekend, prepping for the one coming. 

People to remind to do things for me, thank them for things they did, check on how they are doing. 

IDEAS. Information I want to share, things I want to start working on. 

The work week begins the same way; reports, check-ins, and stand-ups. 

Planning everything. Too many things on the to-do list.

But somehow by the end of the day, if it's not all crossed off, it's less frantic and it's in some sort of priority order. 

Things got done, plans have been made, and the week is rolling and ready.